about this year's celebrations:

1. Putting together the Pud's Kitchen set with my husband as she snoozed peacefully in her bed. I had such a feeling of wonderful coziness getting everything ready for the big surprise.

2. Christmas Eve dinner. Most of the food was from a box and we sat on the couch to eat but it was wonderful to host something at our place. Next year I might venture into a "real" christmas dinner.

3. Seeing the Pud's face as she saw the gifts from Santa, such surprise and joy.

4. Family. For years, it was my mom, sister and myself. It's nice to feel like a part of a larger group.

5. Going to the brother-in-law's family house on Christmas Day. As my mother and I sat on the sofa, I realized we were the only white people in the house. I love that it takes me a bit to realize that in this family. I feel accepted into their family and my husband's family and that is the best christmas gift ever.